The middle sister syndrome
I can’t lie or dream about it. I have been dating the “middle sister” for a few decades, this girl/woman is objectively thought as the shadow and at the same time the counter part of her siblings. This woman is going to be highly influenced by her family, and most likely not going to brake the social standards, but, who are this women? Do they have expectations? And most important, what is a man to do when he is self convinced to be a competent and attractive man for the twentieth-first century standards with these girls?
The middle sister is by definition the girl who is the hope of her parents, plain to say: the forgotten one. The one who is going to ask for advice to the older or younger siblings, the one who has the potential of being the most influential person on the house, but she will most probably be the submissive one…
And then I ask myself: why? Why should I try to develop these girls into women? I guess I should just try to enjoy the fruits of life.